The Book
the mirror you never knew you needed.
Language: Dutch 🇳🇱 | Available for immediate shipping.
“I spent years studying how psychological safety works, yet I spent decades worrying if I was good enough. This book is about bridging that gap.”

Ik zit in mijn luipaardbroek op de bank.
€ 24,99
For the doubting, introverted, yet bad-ass woman who wants to grow. This is not your standard self-help book. It is a permission slip to be imperfect. Dr. Jenny takes you on a journey through the messy middle of life. Honest, raw, and painfully recognizable.
✅ Shipping: Included
✅ No Fluff: A pinch of scientific grounding, humanly told.
✅ Diary Style: Read it like you are listening to a friend.
✅ The Real Deal: Paperback edition with illustrations by Kim White.
“You don’t need another guru telling you how to live. You just need to know that even the ‘experts’ are just winging it in their leopard pants.”
Still on the fence?
Look, I get it. Buying a book is an investment of your time. But if you ever felt like you are “doing it wrong” or that everyone else has their sh*t together except you… this book is for you.
What to Expect from ‘Ik zit in mijn luipaardbroek op de bank’
In Ik zit in mijn luipaardbroek op de bank, Dr. Jenny takes you behind the scenes of a high-stakes academic career and a deeply personal journey of self-discovery. So many of us struggle with the pressure to be ‘perfect’ and have it all together. This book breaks that silence.
Three Core Themes Explored in the Book:
1. Psychological Safety Within Yourself: How to quiet your internal critic, stop overthinking, and give yourself permission to be flawed.
2. Dismantling Imposter Syndrome: A relatable look at why high achievers often feel like frauds—and how to break free.
3. From Head to Heart: Why knowing the theory isn’t enough, and how to bridge the gap between intellect and genuine inner peace.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is ‘Ik zit in mijn luipaardbroek op de bank’ written for?
This book is for any woman who struggles with perfectionism, imposter syndrome, or the feeling that she needs to wear a ‘mask’ to be respected. Whether you are a corporate leader, a researcher, or simply navigating life’s messy middle, this book offers a safe space to breathe.
Is this a heavy academic reading?
Not at all! While Dr. Jenny brings her experience as a PhD scientist, the book is written with humor, honesty, and diary-like vulnerability. It feels less like a textbook and more like a late-night conversation with a trusted friend over wine.
How is the book delivered?
When you order, Ik zit in mijn luipaardbroek op de bank, directly through this website, you will receive the paperback edition (featuring custom illustrations by Kim White) with fast dispatch and shipping included.
It’s cheaper than a therapy session and much funnier.


